Fraudsters are highly sophisticated, use relationships to extort money
By Anil Rachamalla
Social media creates an opportunity for young women and men living in socially conservative non-western societies to be able to communicate and meet and engage in forbidden intimacies and forbidden behaviours.
You can be a highly intelligent person with a good job, but the strategies the dating fraudsters use are highly sophisticated, beware that there are so many pitfalls to online dating, it could be fake profiles, unclear motives, unbalanced emotional people, unclear past behaviour and mostly those are the people who are on the lookout for just sexual relationship and many times we have seen, they use these relations to extort money from you.
Most of the victims are middle-aged men and women from well-to-do upper-middle-class families who are well educated and have access to technology and the scammers are on the lookout for the rich, who are lonely or divorced or interested in same-sex relationships.
Some of the popularly used Dating Apps in India are Lamour, Tantan, Happn, Tinder, WHO, OkCupid, Woo Dating, Facat, Bumble, and Meetville.
Types of dating scams
(a) Proposal turns extortion – Scammers call and extort money on the pretext of having victim’s sex recordings.
(b) Pretty woman is a man – You get fooled by the fake profiles and stolen photos of attractive women. Scammers threaten to keep all conversations on social media, by tagging all your near and dear.
(c) Making gay man pay – Indian taboo against the same-sex relationship is taken as an advantage and we hear terrifying tales of rapes and extortion.
(d) I have your sex recording – Dating friends get on to online explicit conversations and acts and then later the scammer extorts money for having the sex recordings.
The girls are recruited/trained by agencies and they are incentivised in a manner i.e. paid based on how much time they can extend their conversations with subscribers on the dating apps.
Register at https://cybercrime.gov.in/. You will be required to use register via OTP from a valid Indian number. Select the category “Report Crime related to women or children” (a) Upload the screenshots of the conversation from social media & messaging platforms (b) Copy the URLs of the social media channels (c) Screenshots/statements of financial transactions.
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